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So Many Ways to Heal...

WAYS TO HEAL

INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS

A compassionate way to explore beneath the thoughts you have looped on repeat, the behaviours you keep acting out, and get to the root cause of your internal psyche, the relationships between the parts, and accessing Self-Energy, the inbuilt healing mechanism we all have. By finding and giving voice to your parts truths, we can support them to transform into new roles that support us constructively, while meeting their needs so we don't self-sabotage.

ATTACHMENT REPARATION

Each of us may have relationship ruptures, disconnects or disturbances that leave us feeling deep loneliness, anxiousness in our relationships or lead us to live out patterns that either disrupt relationships we want, or make it hard for us to put in protective boundaries which we have permission to do as adults. Therapy provides you with attunement, emotional validation, corrective relational experiences which will help your repair, rewire and rewrite your internal working models so you can enjoy trust, empathy and a secure attachment over time.

ACCESS TO SPIRIT

Intuition, synchronicity, and the ability to embrace the sacred mysteries can help you connect to something greater. 
Through prayer, intention, and sacred ritual, you can access guidance, comfort and an inner strength beyond the ordinary. As a therapist, I hold space for spiritual inquiry, helping you reconnect with divine love,  intuition, and meaning—restoring a deep sense of belonging beyond the ego or wound and towards your true identity, that which you were born with, your Divine self.

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“I’ve struggled with low-confidence and anxiety most of my adulthood. These things have been real inhibitors in feeling like I can show up as my true, authentic self, particularly in professional spaces.

Working with Elaine has been an incredibly gentle, organic process of release and deep exploration.

What I loved most was this approach to understanding the many unique parts of myself, which helped to break down the confusion I often experienced at not understanding what was going on inside me.

This journey felt safe, natural and authentic, and I feel far more comfortable to take a breath and step back to acknowledge what’s going on, internally and externally.

I would highly recommend working with Elaine for anyone who has struggled with a sense of confusion, and is curious to explore things from a deeply intuitive and organic approach.”

M.H. (Auckland) 2025

“Working with Elaine has been transformative. She brings such a professional, kind, and deeply considered approach to every session.

Her ability to read between the lines, noticing what was  coming from the head vs heart, created a space where the sides of me, had space to be fully seen and understood.

My sessions were cathartic, unlocking or uncovering emotions and more understanding of my own operating system.

Elaine’s compassion and thoughtful questions allowed me to open up in ways I hadn’t before. I’m so grateful for the experience and the growth I’ve gained from working with her.

Thank you, Elaine.

A.H. (NZ) 2025

Working with Elaine was life-changing. Here’s my journey…

Before therapy I came to Elaine after suffering severe burnout and unimaginable loss. Within two months, I lost both my mother and my sister-in-law, two anchors in my life. This followed years of 70+ hour workweeks, leading a Covid response team, supporting my husband through a breakdown, and losing my brother during lockdown.

By March 2023, I collapsed. I left my job in October with no backup plan, mentally and emotionally depleted. I couldn’t even string a sentence together.

Elaine helped me uncover parts of myself I’d mistaken for strength. What I thought was resilience was actually my manager and protector selves shaped by past trauma. Her approach was gentle but deeply intuitive.  

From our very first session, something shifted. I woke up the next morning feeling calm, connected, and reassured. It was as if an inner voice whispered, “You’re going to be okay.” Doubt crept in later that day, but, unlike before, it vanished. That was new. That was healing.

I’m now more attuned to my inner world. When uncertainty arises, I can identify which part of me is speaking. I’ve learned to thank these parts for showing up. They’ve always been there. I just hadn’t noticed. Now, I honour them.

At work, when self-doubt creeps in, I pause and ask: “Did I achieve what I set out to?” I’ve stopped chasing impossible standards and started recognising the value in what I do.

What's changed? I’ve found clarity and a sense of inner peace. I sit with discomfort, unpack it, and move forward with intention. The weight has lifted. My soul feels lighter.

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For anyone considering therapy, you won’t regret it. Elaine’s approach is gentle, intuitive, and deeply effective. She knows how to guide you inward, to help you explore, heal, and become a better version of yourself.​

B.W.

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